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 A five-letter word that might seem cool but can have a very negative impact on others is "bully." Some people believe that saying anything they want makes them look cool, and if the other person doesn't respond, it means they are winning. But that's not true. Sometimes, people choose not to speak up, hoping the other person will understand that their words are hurtful. However, the bullies often think they've achieved something significant by putting others down. This behavior isn't limited to just one place; it's everywhere. For example, people often make comparisons like, "He did that; my son or daughter is doing this," even when no one asked. They think it makes them superior, but that's not the case. These comparisons and remarks can have a significant impact. Some people can ignore it because they have talent, but it can still be hurtful. It's not about inborn talent; people develop resilience by choosing to listen to the positive and ignore the negative. The best response to bullies is often to ignore them because engaging can lead to an endless cycle of back-and-forth. Occasionally, it's okay to stand up for yourself but remember that people like this will always be around. It's important not to rush into trusting others, as not everyone is worthy of your trust. 


Life can be challenging, and if we expect it to be simple, we might be disappointed. It's crucial not to let bullies affect your emotions or make you doubt your abilities. You can achieve anything with patience and consistency. Don't be afraid of failure, as it teaches you valuable lessons. Success, on the other hand, can sometimes lead to overconfidence. Stay calm and protect yourself, because you are the lead hero or heroine of your own life.


Let me share a story: I was sitting somewhere, and a friend came over and told me she had been looking for me. We greeted each other, and then she started speaking to her other friend in a language I couldn't understand. When I mentioned that I couldn't follow along, she dismissively told me to learn it. I felt bad and left, but she didn't seem to care. This experience showed me that she wasn't a true friend but was just pretending. Remember, people like this exist everywhere, and it's important to be careful about who you trust.

                                                                                                                             PRAGYA SINGH

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