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Bully

 A five-letter word that might seem cool but can have a very negative impact on others is "bully." Some people believe that saying anything they want makes them look cool, and if the other person doesn't respond, it means they are winning. But that's not true. Sometimes, people choose not to speak up, hoping the other person will understand that their words are hurtful. However, the bullies often think they've achieved something significant by putting others down. This behavior isn't limited to just one place; it's everywhere. For example, people often make comparisons like, "He did that; my son or daughter is doing this," even when no one asked. They think it makes them superior, but that's not the case. These comparisons and remarks can have a significant impact. Some people can ignore it because they have talent, but it can still be hurtful. It's not about inborn talent; people develop resilience by choosing to listen to the positive a
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BULLY

Kindly refrain from making someone feel bad if they're trying to learn anything. At least they're trying to learn. Learning is more important than everything else since nobody came here knowing everything. Everybody learns, stumbles a little bit, and then keeps learning. Even though they won't win you the game, they will at least learn something from it and get better, so you have to help them learn from it. It has nothing to do with winning or losing. Sometimes it's about learning, which we will do, but afterwards we forget and behave badly, pulling faces, criticising others, or refusing to work with you. This is not life, and if you think this is accurate, you are mistaken because everyone encounters this circumstance at some point in their lives. If we encourage someone to do better or by speaking up for someone who isn't performing well. Everybody is gaining knowledge that advances their own development.                                                         So

Random Thoughts

Sometimes we don't obtain what we desire because the timing isn't right. If we receive things at the wrong time, we do not cherish them. We must begin to value what we hold, because nothing is permanent. Even the sun needs to set before rising anew. Similarly, our issues are not permanent. We shouldn't stop living in the moment. Every time we have a difficulty, we lose sight of what we have and begin to think on the same things that upset us. What is Life? We forget why we exist. Unfortunately, we have forgotten why God created us as hu

People

 It's very difficult to understand people because they don’t know what they want but they are still being different every time. Sometimes we understand people and sometimes we just let go of how they behave with us but we shouldn’t let this go because how they behave with you in front of so many people matters not how they behave in front of 2-3 people. Every time we think in life that we have to make friends and will hang out with them. But we forget the most important thing that we have to make true friends because it will help you to grow and with them, you will enjoy it no matter what. We don't have to be dependent on someone else for our happiness and we shouldn’t let them control our life.  We shouldn't let them make decisions about our lives. It's you who should not give the driving seat of your life to someone else. You will regret it. Start planning your day and start vibing with yourself first enjoy your own company and then let others do what they want to do.

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We often worry that if something bad happens, it will cause us to make bad decisions, but we seldom consider what would happen if something good happened instead of bad. Life me hame pta nhi chlta, but ham dusro ko decision lene dete hai by any means dusre decision lete hai life mai which we need to find out ki vo ku ho rha hai hme esko hi rokna hga ese nhi hne de skte ham. If we don't do it, how will we find out if we are standing up for ourselves and facing the situation without more thought? Like clockwork, we must act. Since it is their work, log hmesha bolenge chahe kuch bhi ho logo ko har chi me bolna hai sahi me bhi galat mai bhi; yet, we must distinguish between what is right and what is wrong. We are accountable. We shouldn't let anyone else control our lives. We should confront it when seated in the driver's seat. 

Priorities

Why is it challenging to establish trusting friendships? Often, our efforts are directed toward ensuring the contentment of others, while we neglect our own well-being. It is imperative to prioritize self-care and self-fulfillment, as external individuals may perpetually harbor doubts, issues, or display discontentment. Our internal satisfaction is contingent upon us, and it is incumbent upon us to cultivate it. We possess the capacity to foster our own happiness, and therefore, we should cease granting precedence to external entities and instead focus on our own thoughts, emotions, and actions. By recognizing our agency in achieving happiness and taking proactive measures to nurture it, we empower ourselves to transcend reliance on others for emotional well-being. Ultimately, we must assume full responsibility for our own happiness rather than attributing it to external sources or circumstances. Shifting our priorities to place ourselves, our thoughts, and our opinions at the forefron

A girl who Overthinks

One girl who overthought everything. Her mind couldn't stop thinking about everything she did; she was always comparing herself to others and thinking she wasn't nice or beautiful enough; she didn't have this, and people teased her even more because she didn't say anything back; she was always thinking late. She realized one day that if she continued to be an introvert, nothing would change because people would say and go. She needed to change her behavior and start responding to people because people would not stop until she stood up for herself. However, when she went outside, she began to feel bad because she was becoming silent and not saying anything else. Later on, she realized that things were not going to go as planned, and she needed to be proactive and cautious that if someone insulted her, she needed to stand up for herself. People that are fat, thing, fair, or not fair always have to say something because when they are jealous, they say things to make themse