THOUGHTS

 It's very difficult to understand people because they don’t know what they want but they are still being different every time. Sometimes we understand people and sometimes we just let go of how they behave with us but we shouldn’t let this go because how they behave with you in front of so many people matters not how they behave in front of 2-3 people. Every time we think in life that we have to make friends and will hang out with them. But we forget the most important thing that we have to make true friends because it will help you to grow and with them, you will enjoy it no matter what. We don't have to be dependent on someone else for our happiness and we shouldn’t let them control our life.  We shouldn't let them make decisions about our lives. It's you who should not give the driving seat of your life to someone else. You will regret it. Start planning your day and start vibing with yourself first enjoy your own company and then let others do what they want to do.

We often worry that if something bad happens, it will cause us to make bad decisions, but we seldom consider what would happen if something good happened instead of bad. Life me hame pta nhi chlta, but ham dusro ko decision lene dete hai by any means dusre decision lete hai life mai which we need to find out ki vo ku ho rha hai hme esko hi rokna hga ese nhi hne de skte ham. If we don't do it, how will we find out if we are standing up for ourselves and facing the situation without more thought? Like clockwork, we must act. Since it is their work, log hmesha bolenge chahe kuch bhi ho logo ko har chi me bolna hai sahi me bhi galat mai bhi; yet, we must distinguish between what is right and what is wrong. We are accountable. We shouldn't let anyone else control our lives. We should confront it when seated in the driver's seat. 

Why is it challenging to establish trusting friendships? Often, our efforts are directed toward ensuring the contentment of others, while we neglect our own well-being. It is imperative to prioritize self-care and self-fulfillment, as external individuals may perpetually harbor doubts, issues, or display discontentment. Our internal satisfaction is contingent upon us, and it is incumbent upon us to cultivate it. We possess the capacity to foster our own happiness, and therefore, we should cease granting precedence to external entities and instead focus on our own thoughts, emotions, and actions. By recognizing our agency in achieving happiness and taking proactive measures to nurture it, we empower ourselves to transcend reliance on others for emotional well-being. Ultimately, we must assume full responsibility for our own happiness rather than attributing it to external sources or circumstances. Shifting our priorities to place ourselves, our thoughts, and our opinions at the forefron

One girl who overthought everything. Her mind couldn't stop thinking about everything she did; she was always comparing herself to others and thinking she wasn't nice or beautiful enough; she didn't have this, and people teased her even more because she didn't say anything back; she was always thinking late. She realized one day that if she continued to be an introvert, nothing would change because people would say and go. She needed to change her behavior and start responding to people because people would not stop until she stood up for herself. However, when she went outside, she began to feel bad because she was becoming silent and not saying anything else. Later on, she realized that things were not going to go as planned, and she needed to be proactive and cautious that if someone insulted her, she needed to stand up for herself. People that are fat, thing, fair, or not fair always have to say something because when they are jealous, they say things to make themse